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The Love Slave versus the Narcissist


The love slave versus the narcissit

The love slave versus the narcissit

 Love “slaves” are constantly looking for someone to love and end up with an unloving partner instead.

Many of my female clients ask me why they get involved with the “wrong guys”. As a relationship coach I decided to illustrate these opposite and complementary behavior patterns.

Here is the answer:        

 The Love Slave (L)    and  The Narcissist (N) 

L – Gets attached immediately                  N- Is strongly detached

L – Gets addicted to relationship              N- Created distance to avoid bonding

L – Is the caretaker                                        N- Feels entitled to be taken care of

L -Wants commitment                                  N- Wants more space or runs away

L- Needs constant love assurance           N- Seduces and withholds

L- Copes with abuse                                       N- Gets nervous and selfish when things go well

L- Goes along with partners plans           N- Has complete control of schedule and activities

L- Has no sexual boundaries                      N- Selfish sexual satisfaction

L- Is caught up in the lives of others        N- Is indifferent to others

L- Is the constant giver                                 N-Is the real taker

L- Space means “rejection”                          N- starts to be “on and off” to control better

L- Fearful of being alone                              N- Fearful of losing his identity


The love slave versus the narcissist…This list can go on… 

Love slaves are looking for the controlling and dominant person who makes it easier for them to avoid taking responsibility for themselves. This is a way to fantasize with a caring and loving figure they didn’t have in their early childhood; or someone who reminds them of one of their caretakers. In reality they have tremendous fears left over from childhood of abandonment and love deprivation. 

The worst and most unhealthy personality type, when it comes to LOVE, is the narcissist ego maniac. Because of love slaves, these guys are very in demand nowadays! 

If you are hooked in the middle of this drama because you are so needy of LOVE, you may very well be in need of a relationship coach who can help bring about this spiritual and emotional healing. If that is the case, take a deep breath and call my number. I am a love coach ready to assist you. Let’s talk.


 Love counseling can help you update the old beliefs facing the new times reality.  





Bea Kobran, Holistic Therapist, Life-Coach

Crystal Energy and Astral-Projection
Certified Reiki Master and Metaphysician
Certified Theta-Healing® Practitioner
Certified Relationship Coach
Certified & Licensed Counselor, FL State
Intuitive and Clairvoyant
In person: Boca Raton, Deerfield Beach, Coconut Creek, South Florida, USA