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Healing of Fears

06.24.14

Fear is a chemistry that denies life in our soul

Healing of Fear

Healing of Fear

What is fear and what are its effects? Well, the dictionary definition of fear is an emotion that is a result of the belief that something or someone is a danger capable of causing pain or poses a threat. In the normal cases, the result of this type of fear is the reflex reaction to avoid the source of danger or threat. This type of fear is not a threat to a person because it can be overcome. There is the other type of fear that is more intimidating and threats the individual in question at a personal level; the fear that denies life soul. The threat of this type of fear is it will limit the person’s life and such the juice of life out.

What’s the way round this type of fear?

This type of fear can be healed. To do this, one has to first realize the situation through a personal awakening. The basis of fear is the mind, where negative thoughts cloud the mind as to cover every other aspect of possibility. One way towards healing fear, any type of fear, is to undergo spiritual healing. There is a more powerful being than humans and this being has everything under control. The belief that there is a higher power in control heals the mind by providing assurance.

Fear that is caused by thoughts clouding the mind could be defined loosely as fear of the unknown. The thoughts that cloud the mind are mainly from unsubstantiated sources that are from negative expectations or from third party sources. To deal with these sources of fear, ascending to the 5th dimension is a solution. To do this requires simple dive into the positive expectations dimension. The 5th dimension requires you overlook the negative sources of fear and concentrating on the positives. However, ascending to the 5th dimension should not be taken as an excuse for ignorance. Some of the sources of the fear-driving thoughts are real risks, and the 5th dimension in this case should be employed resourcefully as cause you not to be stagnated by the fear, but take initiative to cover the risks.

The steering wheel against fear lies with consciousness. By transcending to a new consciousness is away to healing fear. By the way, what is the difference between those who have made it in life and those who struggle with daily living? The difference is in the consciousness. According to psychological studies, consciousness is the operating system and if the one you are operating on is deficient as to perceive life with negativity, then you need to upgrade or fully reboot to a new consciousness.

 

 Bea Kobran – Holistic Therapist, Intuitive Counselor, Psychic Reader

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The Love Slave versus the Narcissist

07.20.13

The love slave versus the narcissit

The love slave versus the narcissit

 Love “slaves” are constantly looking for someone to love and end up with an unloving partner instead.

Many of my female clients ask me why they get involved with the “wrong guys”. As a relationship coach I decided to illustrate these opposite and complementary behavior patterns.

Here is the answer:        

 The Love Slave (L)    and  The Narcissist (N) 

L – Gets attached immediately                  N- Is strongly detached

L – Gets addicted to relationship              N- Created distance to avoid bonding

L – Is the caretaker                                        N- Feels entitled to be taken care of

L -Wants commitment                                  N- Wants more space or runs away

L- Needs constant love assurance           N- Seduces and withholds

L- Copes with abuse                                       N- Gets nervous and selfish when things go well

L- Goes along with partners plans           N- Has complete control of schedule and activities

L- Has no sexual boundaries                      N- Selfish sexual satisfaction

L- Is caught up in the lives of others        N- Is indifferent to others

L- Is the constant giver                                 N-Is the real taker

L- Space means “rejection”                          N- starts to be “on and off” to control better

L- Fearful of being alone                              N- Fearful of losing his identity

 

The love slave versus the narcissist…This list can go on… 

Love slaves are looking for the controlling and dominant person who makes it easier for them to avoid taking responsibility for themselves. This is a way to fantasize with a caring and loving figure they didn’t have in their early childhood; or someone who reminds them of one of their caretakers. In reality they have tremendous fears left over from childhood of abandonment and love deprivation. 

The worst and most unhealthy personality type, when it comes to LOVE, is the narcissist ego maniac. Because of love slaves, these guys are very in demand nowadays! 

If you are hooked in the middle of this drama because you are so needy of LOVE, you may very well be in need of a relationship coach who can help bring about this spiritual and emotional healing. If that is the case, take a deep breath and call my number. I am a love coach ready to assist you. Let’s talk.

 

 Love counseling can help you update the old beliefs facing the new times reality.  

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Bea Kobran, Holistic Therapist, Life-Coach

Crystal Energy and Astral-Projection
Certified Reiki Master and Metaphysician
Certified Theta-Healing® Practitioner
Certified Relationship Coach
Certified & Licensed Counselor, FL State
Intuitive and Clairvoyant
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